as I am listening to Barbara De Angelis, I am learning about Emotional programing.

did you know that by the age of 8 we are 80% emotionally programed? it is amazing to know that when 2 adults are arguing, its really two 8 years old taking…. I can definitely see myself doing that. Just now I got of the phone with my husband that is still at work. In my head I know that is what he needs to do, but it my heart I am a little bit upset. Or, when my boy tells me that I am doing something wrong, I know he is right, but sometime I feel strange.

I am realizing that its really the 8 years old Relli that is controlling the communication.